What's wrong with this facebook indian chick...?

As I was just busy posting up pictures on Facebook, I received an instant message, and this was how the conversation went....


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3.04pmNithia
hi

3:05pmMelissa
hello.

3:06pmNithia
hw ru
wit ur permission can i be fren wit u ha

3:06pmMelissa
i'm okay. no problem (: have we met before?
you look familiar.

3:08pmNithia
wat

3:09pmMelissa
...? u got my message..?

3:09pmNithia
ya
y u said i look like familier ha all said the same to me ha
anyway tq

3:11pmMelissa
which school were u from? we never met before issit?

3:11pmNithia
ya

3:12pmMelissa
ohhh... which school previously then?

3:13pmNithia
smk wangsa maju sek 2, and smktaman sri rampai

3:14pmMelissa
wow.... that's pretty unknown to me.
okay i und what you mean now.

3:14pmNithia
no

3:16pmMelissa
no what..?

3:17pmNithia
i ask u wat u mean ha

3:18pmMelissa
i'm saying that i don't know your school name, it sounds unfamiliar to me. so how you found me on facebook?

3:19pmNithia
I JUS ADD WANT TO BE FREN
IF U DNT LIKE ITS OK

3:20pmMelissa
... look, if you don't wanna talk then it's fine with me. i'm just asking how you found me, that's all.

3:20pmNithia
I NVR SAID I DNT LIKE
U R TALK LIKE U DNT LIKE TO BE FREN WIT HA

3:21pmMelissa
really? i'm just asking questions. that's how i could know you better, right? i don't know why you're so mad...

3:22pmNithia
HEY.....................

3:22pmMelissa
are you alright...? we can stop here if you want okay. just chill... (:

3:22pmNithia
UP TO U IF U DOWANT OK

3:23pmMelissa
why are you typing in caps...? it seems to me that you're pretty pissed :/

3:26pmNithia
no ...............................

3:26pmMelissa
okay, anyways, i won't disturb you now. i'll go do my house chores. take care.


Melissa signed off.

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And so I went to her page and removed her from my friends.
I mistook her photo for another friend of mine, which was clearly someone I dunno.
So people, check their info first before you think you know them, lol.
Otherwise you'd share my same fate, getting marah-ed for no good reason.

WTH was wrong with her, lol?
I was talking to her nicely and asking about herself since she wanna be friends.
Tiba-tiba marah me when I'm making conversation WTH.
She just wanna add me without knowing me issit?
Adding friend counter issit?

Whatever, grrrrr.

Good reminders for married couples :)

1.* Start each day with a kiss.
2.* Wear your wedding ring at all times.
3.* Date once a week.
4.* Accept differences.
5.* Be polite.
6.* Be gentle.
7.* Give gifts.
8.* Smile often.
9.* Touch.
10.* Talk about dreams.
11.* Select a song that can be "our Song".
12.* Give back rubs.
13.* Laugh together.
14.* Send a card for no reason.
15.* Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
16.* Listen.
17.* Encourage.
18.* Do it his or her way.
19.* Know his or her needs.
20.* Fix the other person's breakfast.
21.* Compliment twice a day.
22.* Call during the day.
23.* Slow down.
24.* Cuddle.
25.* Ask for each other's opinion.
26.* Show respect.
27.* Welcome the other person home.
28.* Look your best.
29.* Wink at each other.
30.* Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
31.* Apologize.
32.* Forgive.
33.* Set up a romantic getaway.
34.* Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
35.* Be positive.
36.* Be kind.
37.* Be vulnerable.
38.* Respond quickly to the other person's request.
39.* Talk about your love.
40.* Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
41.* Send flowers every Valentine's Day and anniversary.
42.* Admit when wrong.
43.* Pray for each other daily.
44.* Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
45.* Watch sunsets together.
46.* Say "I love you" frequently.
47.* End the day with a hug.
48.* Seek outside help when needed


I just saw this from my aunt's blog and I think it's a great reminder for married couples.
They tend to get so caught up with daily routines that it wears out their marriage unintentionally.

Pointers like these remind them to keep their marriage strong, and why they got married in the first place. Keep the passion going - keep it fresh, in short.

That's why I'm sharing it here :)
Love!

Tribute: Michael Jackson

I've finally found the time for this tribute.
But he did capture my heart when I was very young.
Thanks to his songs and MTVs.

"Black Or White, Heal The World, Earth Song, You Are Not Alone, Thriller, Bad, Billie Jean, Beat It, Smooth Criminal, Remember The Time, Jam, Dangerous, One More Chance, I'll Be There..."

I'm not crazy about him, but those are some great hits I tell you!

No matter how many people made fun, mock or criticize him
(I'm guilty too)...
We can't deny that he was indeed one of the world's finest performers.
Yes, maybe not the greatest person to everyone, but he's one damn good performer that captured hearts all over the world.

He came up with his distinct style in music and dance moves
that created many copycats after him.
For instance, this one here.
Girls would scream and faint just at the sight of him.
Very vicious and brutal females I tell you, if you've seen his live videos before.

Also his ability to dance like this.
Not forgetting that he invented the "Moonwalk".
He's only one year younger than my mum!
And now I can't show my kids what MJ looks like when he's old and grey.

Somehow, it was only okay for MJ to grab his groin while dancing.
Doing high pitch noises like "teeheeee!".
Making "tahhh!" noises after singing every sentence.
If anyone else did that anywhere, we'd say he's a freak or he's a lame copycat.
It was only okay if MJ did it. It was just his trademark.

Michael Jackson - Black Or White (HD)

This was ultimately my favourite MTV as a kid.
There was just so much unity in this, love love the face transitions!
It was only recently that I realized Tyra Banks was in it too, lol.

Michael Jackson
( 1958 - 2009 )
"If you've been performing infront of 100 million people since the age of 5,
you're automatically different"


Born black, died white.
You'll be remembered MJ, thanks for the music.
Rest in peace.



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On the contrary...
It doesn't really help when I keep seeing him in "Plants VS Zombies".

Especially when he emerged from the graves with his back-up dancers.
You'll get it if you play the game.

Pretty addicted to this game I tell you.
I've finished the whole thing and I'm still playing for more items.

Death Metal Band...?

Hmmm.
Death Metal Band...?



Nah.

:)


Lurve ya Alven, hahahaa.

Mel Had An Oral Surgery Called Frenectomy

Yeah, you must be thinking
"Ahhh, it's Mel and one of her extreme surgeries again".
You're absolutely right!

We all remember the tooth extractions in 2007....

the headgear in 2008.... lol, man.

And now this, Frenectomy in 2009.


See this "rubber band" thingy that connects your gums to your lips?
It's called a Labial Frenum.
Yeah, I had it surgerically removed last Tuesday.

Why Mel??
What's wrong with youuu??

In case you guys weren't following earlier on, you can refer to my earlier post regarding the need for this surgery.

Man, after such a long time....
I actually felt fear, I was feeling scared on that dentist chair.
The minute I saw the huge bigassed needle that I've met before when I had to extract my two permanent teeth, I shivered. Recalling the seriously long needle shots that went into my mouth EIGHT TIMES.... The counter had now been promoted, that would be TWELVE TIMES now. Dammit.

The Anaesthetic Needle.

The feeling of that huge long needle penetrating into my gums and mouth 4 times, refreshed the past. After the nurse tested poking my gums with a sharp scaler, I felt nothing, which meant that I was ready. In they called the doctor, Dr. Chan. He took this lazer pen rolled up in aluminium foil, saying that this is a lazer surgery, that it would take a very short moment.

This 2 pictures were taken from the previous posts while extracting my teeth.

As he started lazering my flesh, I could literally smell my flesh burning. I thought,
"Ohh, this is what cannibals smell when they cook us".
Cause it didn't smell pleasing, or tasty.


In less than a minute, he was done, as the nurse stopped the device that was sucking away blood that was overflowing. A cotton goss was immediately pushed against the cut where my labial frenum no longer existed. I still felt numb from the anesthetic, so I hoped that there would be no pain, like how it happened when I extracted my teeth.


He told me that I couldn't brush my teeth for 2 days, that I'll only have to use listerine the mouth wash, twice a day. I was wondering how it would sting if it touched my wound. Shivers.
After going home, speaking to my parents with hand gestures and muffled sounds, they understood my perfectly. That's why they're my parents :)

A bloddy show.
It's gone forever.

I refrained from resting, to know if I felt any pain. Not long after that, I started to feel giddy and weak, suddenly feeling the numbness fading away. I assumed great pain would follow suit, but thank God it didn't. I just felt agonized for a little while. I ate porridge for that day, could hardly bite anything. But the next day was fine, I just didn't dare to move my lower mouth so much.




From a bloddy show, it looked like ulcer now.

Another day went on and I felt that I could move my mouth more, eat more solids.
So I tried checking my mouth further.
And I found this beneath my tongue.

Seems like the two labial frenums were connected perhaps.
It looked gory but I didn't feel much.
Don't worry peeps, I think the blood clot is subsiding.
Hopefully it'll be gone soon.

So that's the price I had to pay for vainity.
Any one else up for braces?
*evil laugh*